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Post by PetitePirate on Jun 25, 2004 20:08:44 GMT -5
that doesn't sound like such a best friend to me, hon.
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Post by amiphist on Jun 25, 2004 21:36:46 GMT -5
i kow, but it's so unlike her
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Post by PuppyDawg on Jun 26, 2004 23:08:54 GMT -5
WHY don't they like you! You are so sweet and nice and funny... it's so sad! If I were you, I swear, I would lose my temper and punch your friend in the face. Sorry, but that is rutheless.
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Post by amiphist on Jun 27, 2004 13:57:09 GMT -5
i did pull her hair really hard, i was trying not to, but when she pulled mine, i had to do something
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Post by meatnmilk on Jun 28, 2004 4:18:18 GMT -5
Ami as long you undersand that you peer's problem with you is your peer's problem. If you can not stop them, then you need to concentrate your energies on surviving them. I am surprised though that your parents are not more concerned regarding the level of violence you describe....are they really aware of what is going on - regarding the extent? Parents went to school too, and sometimes it is hard for them to not consider that whatever is happening with their children is just the same minor disagreements that occured in their own time at school. If your description is accurate, this is far worse than the usual 'kids will be kids' situation. Are you able to actually get your parents to listen, or do they 'tune out' as soon as you raise the issue? If they are not fully aware, can you find a way to communicate to them so they understand that this is a serious issue and not just school yard drama? Perhaps if instead of raising the issue you told them you have something very serious to discuss and can they make a time when they can sit down and listen....this might make them realise that you are not just 'letting off steam' after having a 'bad day', but rather that you genuinely need their help. If this does not work perhaps you know of an adult who will listen and approach your parents.....they are more likely to understand that this is a real problem if 1 another adult expresses concern, and 2 they know that you consider it important enough to have gone to such an effort to get them to understand. Keep your chin up.....
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Post by amiphist on Jun 28, 2004 11:04:33 GMT -5
thanks alot MnM, asking someone elsew to talk to them is a good idea, and thanks to everyone for caring so much
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Post by *~Ginny~* on Jun 28, 2004 14:33:19 GMT -5
i just dont get how they dont like you... youre really nice, just like puppy said...and the kids at your school are blind if they think youre ugly, bc youre pretty.
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Post by amiphist on Jun 28, 2004 14:36:11 GMT -5
i'm blushing now, honestly. thanks, they may just be saying i'm ugly to spite me, they may not mean it, i don't know
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Post by elysium on Jun 28, 2004 15:31:42 GMT -5
Meh, Collin says I'm ugly all the time. I could care less, really. I mean, it's fine with me if people think I'm unattractive, but if they ever said that to me, their lack of respect WOULD hurt my feelings.
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